Do you ever feel like your partner, your sister or even your colleague... Is living in a different world? Another dimension? Do you find yourself trying to explain to them things they just seem to be completely oblivious, even ignorant to? Do you ever get frustrated by how they just don´t get any hints, no matter how clear you feel they are?
Let me tell you - you are not delusional. Just as much as you are probably not the smarter, bigger person here, in case that´s the conclusion you came up with. You just really are living a different reality - having different point of view, percieving and understanding in another way. This doesn´t mean there´s something wrong with you, or the other person. People just tend to forget some very basic facts - we have each been raised in different enviroments, by different people with different beliefs and systems, and what´s more, we have each recieved different energy by birth - our very own set of vibrations that we carry with ourselves thorough our lives.
Our energy plays a huge factor in the way we communicate, the way we approach situations, the way we act under pressure and the values we hold instinctively. More than that, it defines what energies - people, situations, experiences - we attract. And that´s where we get to the most important part - the relationships we have in our life. Whether it´s the ones we don´t choose - our parents, siblings or colleagues, or the ones we choose - our friends or partner -, the aim is to reach harmony, or at least cooperation, between two very individual energies. Therefore expecting another person to simply meet your expectations and act toward your beliefs is a dead end. And the solution? COMMUNICATION.
The only way to overcome obstacles and reach mutual understanding is through proper communication. Now, you need to know that effective communication is a skill. And just like any skill, it can be learned.
That´s where the MINJAQ team steps in - by working with the numbers of you and the person you want to improve the relationship with, we can guide you on your way to mutual understanding and functioning communication - considering the individual timing, approach and percieving of both of you. We can advice you on how to explain yourself in order to actually reach to them, but also how to listen properly - and understand even the ways that you are not familiar with.
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